Below The Belt: Secret Society Seductions by Tom Torero

Author:Tom Torero [Torero, Tom]
Language: eng
Format: azw3, epub
Tags: FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / General, TRAVEL / General, SELF-HELP / General
Publisher: Torero Publishing
Published: 2018-11-08T16:00:00+00:00

Chapter 22:

BENCHMARKS

“We drive into the future using only our rearview mirror”

– Marshall McLuhan

Many lays (and many of my lay reports) blend into one: approach the girl, get her number, take her on a date or two and sleep with her. Some of the girls stand out in the mind for their level of beauty but that doesn’t often correlate to how good the sex itself was. Some you have a connection with outside of the bedroom, but that also doesn’t always influence how mind blowing the actual sex was.

There’s nothing wrong with lots and lots of casual sex that is unmemorable beyond the climax. The experiences alone take a guy from inexperienced to confident, Nice Guy to semi-pimp. In the moment the daygame, the date and the pull home are an end in themselves. A touring musician doesn’t remember every single gig he’s played but the cumulative effect of playing those gigs is what makes him great.

That's precisely why I tell any guy getting into pickup to aim for at least 30 new notches from cold approach before considering any long term relationship. A guy under 35 should be looking to get as much Secret Society sexual experience as possible to strengthen his frame and “scratch the player itch” before moving in with a girl and trying monogamy.

A weakness of writing books of just lay reports (like my first book in particular) is that once you work out how to have casual sex, the infield reports start to sound robotic as you get less and less learning points and levelling up in each one. The puzzle’s been solved, the hustle has become consistent, so why keep writing? Is sex just sex at the end of the day?

When reflecting back on the many notches on my belt, I realise that there are a handful of key ones that really taught me about sex and myself. Just a few that were “peak experiences” in terms of how intense the act was and what I got from it. Planets colliding, sexual chemistry, Big Bang benchmarks… call them what you want, they taught me a lot.

I’ll stress once again that these lays have had little to do with “deep connection” (many of them are anonymous fast pulls) or if she was one of the hottest girls. It’s not related to how sweet / innocent / intelligent / interesting [insert your own Purity Fantasy goal here] she is. It’s just a clitoral click. A sexual spark. A fleeting flame. A bloody good bang.

These are the girls who gave me a leg up over the Secret Society walls:

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